¿Cuantas veces ante nuestra invitación recibimos como respuesta: "Estoy muy ocupado"?. Por un lado, el mensaje de victimización no nos resulta válido porque todos estamos muy ocupados. En segundo lugar, revela que tan ineficiente es en el uso del tiempo nuestro interlocutor.Peor aún, cuando nuestra invitación es para que participe en actividades que ayudarán a mejorar su productividad.
Stop saying 'I'm so busy.' Harvard researchers say this is what successful people do instead
“I’m so busy” — three little words we say all the time as a way to decline invitations. But guess what? Everyone is busy, so while you might think the message you’re sending with “I’m so busy” is, “I’m really slammed,” what the other person really hears is, “What I’m working on is more important than you.”
Leerlo en:
https://www.cnbc.com/2019/04/25/stop-saying-im-busy-harvard-study-reveals-how-successful-people-say-no-and-protect-their-time.html?__source=twitter|makeit+
Stop saying 'I'm so busy.' Harvard researchers say this is what successful people do instead“I’m so busy” — three little words we say all the time as a way to decline invitations. But guess what? Everyone is busy, so while you might think the message you’re sending with “I’m so busy” is, “I’m really slammed,” what the other person really hears is, “What I’m working on is more important than you.”
Leerlo en:
https://www.cnbc.com/2019/04/25/stop-saying-im-busy-harvard-study-reveals-how-successful-people-say-no-and-protect-their-time.html?__source=twitter|makeit+
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